Some Dating Advice

 

Some Dating Advice

No magic, no secrets:
Stop looking for love. It doesn't work that way. Focus on your self-
improvement. Extend yourself to others. Present the best person you can to
those you encounter. Love will find you.


Are you a jerk?
Women are used to dealing with jerks. They have "jerk radar" and special jerk-
avoidance strategies. They discuss this among themselves all the time. If you
are a jerk or have jerk-like tendencies, you are doomed until you change. It's
just that simple.


Flirting
You should be flirting at every opportunity. Flirting is all about
conversation. The way to a woman's heart is through her ear. Hence, you need to
speak to as many women as possible every day. You are not rude, aggressive,
threatening -- just friendly. A bit of friendly small talk never hurt anyone.


Don't live for love, love to live
You were happy before you met her and if things don't work out you will be
happy afterwards. So this is the secret. It's not a Porsche, ripped abs or the
right pair of sunglasses. You are a pleasure to be with because you are
basically happy with yourself and your life. Things are just better when you are
around.


Meeting Her Friends (and Family)
When meeting her friends and family, remember, you are about to be put on
display. Listen twice as much as you talk; drink very little, if at all; and
try to keep the evening reasonably short. All you have to do is relax, let her
do the work and avoid stupid mistakes.


Friendship
If you can be successful at becoming friends with a woman you have the basis
for building a relationship with any woman. You need to develop the skills and
have the experience. Besides, you can never have too many friends.